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This blog is about the issues men face and things I have experienced.

I hope you will be encouraged, challenged, and stirred to take action.

Proverbs 27:17 (The Message)

17 You use steel to sharpen steel, and one friend sharpens another

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Sunday, February 25, 2024

Update Since 2018

 In July 2020 we sold our farm, purchased a motorhome, and headed off on a new adventure.

For last 3 1/2 years we have been traveling the states west of the Mississippi, spending our winters in Yuma AZ and summers whether we decide summer will be comfortable.

If there is any interest I will share our experiences and how God has blessed us.

Sunday, December 30, 2018

Overcoming

People often misunderstand addiction. Many view people with an addiction as being weak. I want you to consider that there is a root cause for every addiction. It almost always can be found to be an unhealed wound. I believe once the wound or wounds are healed then overcoming can begin.

If you are suffering from an addiction I encourage you to find someone to walk with you and that will point you to the right resource for your addiction. They must be a person who will keep you accountable without degrading you.

If you need someone to provide you with some resources please contact me via my email lnclark1950@gmail.com.


Monday, October 22, 2018

The Walking Dead


If one does not have a dream or some thing that they are passionate about they are part of what I call "The Walking Dead."

"Many people die when they are 25 
but aren't buried until they are 75." - Ben Franklin

"Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, go and do that. 
Because what the world needs is 
people who have come alive." - John Eldredge

Without having passion in a dream 
you will live out your life in the programs 
you watch on television, 
the movies or videos you watch on the internet, 
or through the fantasies you live out.

If you do not have a passion or a dream then I want to encourage you to ask God to reveal one to you. I believe deep inside you have one but life has covered it over.

Tuesday, January 16, 2018

What do You Believe and Why?

I am a follower of Jesus Christ. I believe that Genesis 1 describes how the earth and all that is on and above it were created. I do no apologize for standing firm in the belief that what God had Moses write in Genesis is what He intended to be written. I am comfortable in accepting either a literal 6 day creation model or a 6,000 year creation model. I do not believe the earth as we know it was created 4.5 million years ago but I do believe that it could have been first created for the Angels. If you do not mind having your current beliefs challenged watch the video below. WARNING: It is Radical.

Saturday, January 13, 2018

What is Your World View?



I have been thinking a lot about my world view. You might be asking what do I mean by world view. World view, as I understand it, is what one bases their beliefs on. Most of you would know that I claim to be a follower of Jesus Christ. So my world view is based on His words.
So my world view would be that God created the earth and everything contained on it. I believe that God created humankind in His image and likeness. We find that in Genesis 1:27 Expanded Bible (EXB) 27 So God created [1:1] ·human beings [T man; C the Hebrew adam can mean human beings, humankind, person, man, or the proper name Adam] in his image [C reflecting God’s nature/character and representing him in the world]. In the image of God he created them. He created them male and female.
Since I believe that I try to form my life around that as my idea. I do not do this perfectly because I am human and sometimes fail. What I have been going through lately is a challenge to which world view I will hold to.
In my mind there are three different world views: 1. What God has inspired to be written in the Bible is true. 2. What is written in the Bible was written by men who were writing about what they knew at the time. 3. The Bible is a myth and not to be believed in as true but looked at like most ancient writings, as history of that time.
When I come face to face with a situation that is challenging I try to use my world view which is the first one I mentioned above and it trumps everything else. I am not against science but if it conflicts with the Bible view point I stick with the Bible.
Having said that I want to challenge you to check your world view. What is it that you have your life securely based in? Is it the first, second or third or is it a mixture of several? What you believe will flow out of whatever world view you have.
Amos 9: Amplified Bible (AMP) 6 It is He who builds His upper chambers in the heavens And has established His vaulted dome (the firmament of heaven) over the earth, He who calls to the waters of the sea And pours them out on the face of the earth—The Lord is His name.

Friday, January 12, 2018

Some Statements about Genesis 1

A few days back I made a statement on FaceBook about the Masons that seemed harsh. I want to say that I know that the Masons, the Shriners, and other groups who have their roots in both of these groups do a lot of great work. I do not want to down play the work they do or the common men involved. What I have shared was true even though it seemed harsh.

With this post I want to share a few statements by Christian leaders and get your response. Please click this link to read the statements.

1. [The Christian is not to compromise so as to obscure the distinction between good and evil, and is to avoid the errors of] those dreamers everything and prevent the order of nature. We will see some who are who have a spirit of bitterness and contradiction, who reprove so deranged, not only in religion but who in all things reveal their that it is the earth which shifts and turns. When we see such minds monstrous nature that they will say that the sun does not move, and we must indeed confess that the devil possess them, and that God sets their imprudence. When they are told: “That is hot,” they will them before us as mirrors, in order to keep us in his fear. So it is with all who argue out of pure malice, and who happily make a show of reply: “No, it is plainly cold.” When they are shown an object contradict the fact. And so it is that they are madmen who would try that is black, they will say that it is white, or vice versa. Just like the man who said that snow is black; for although it is perceived and known by all to be white, yet he clearly wished to to change the natural order, and even to dazzle eyes and benumb their senses.


2. A simple survey of the world should of itself suffice to attest a Divine Providence. The heavens revolve daily, and, immense as is their fabric, and inconceivable the rapidity of their revolutions, we experience no concussion — no disturbance in the harmony of their returns annually to the same point. The planets, in all their motion. The sun, though varying its course every diurnal revolution, hang suspended in the air were it not upheld by God’s hand? By what
wanderings, maintain their respective positions. How could the earth means could it maintain itself unmoved, while the heavens above are it? Accordingly the particle אף, in constant rapid motion, did not its Divine Maker fix and establish aph, denoting emphasis, is introduced — Yea, he hath established it.




3. "There is talk of a new astrologer who wants to prove that the earth moves
and goes around instead of the sky, the sun, the moon, just as if sitting still and at rest while the earth and the trees walked and somebody were moving in a carriage or ship might hold that he was clever he must needs invent something special, and the way he does it moved. But that is how things are nowadays: when a man wishes to be must needs be the best! The fool wants to turn the whole art of Luther (In response to the publication of the brief Commentariolus,
astronomy upside-down. However, as Holy Scripture tells us, so did Joshua bid the sun to stand still and not the earth."




4. "We Christians must be different from the philosophers [i.e. scientists] in the way we think about the causes of these things. And if some are beyond our comprehension (like those before us concerning the waters knowledge rather than either wickedly deny them or presumptuously above the heavens), we must believe them and admit our lack of interpret them in conformity with our understanding."


5. "Indeed, it is more likely that the bodies of the stars, like that of the sun,are round, and that they are fastened to the firmament like globes of creation." - Martin Luther, Luther’s Works. Vol 1. fire, to shed light at night, each according to its endowment and its Lectures on Genesis, ed. Jaroslav Pelikan (St. Louis: Concordia Publishing House, 1958), 42



Notes:
1.- John Calvin, (Sermon on 1 Corinthians 10:19-24, Calvini Opera Selecta, Corpus Refomatorum, Vol 49, 677, trans. by Robert White in "Calvin and Copernicus: the Problem Reconsidered", Calvin Theological Journal 15 1980, p233-243, at 236-237)

2. - John Calvin, Commentary on the Psalms: Volume IV, Ps 93:1

3. – Martin conversations) which appeared a decade before De Revolutionibus. This comes from Luther's Tablebook "Tischreden", or record of dinner-table

4. - Martin Pelikan (St. Louis: Concordia Publishing House, 1958), 30 Luther, Luther’s Works. Vol 1. Lectures on Genesis, ed. Jaroslav

5. - Martin Luther, Luther’s Works. Vol 1. fire, to shed light at night, each according to its endowment and its Lectures on Genesis, ed. Jaroslav Pelikan (St. Louis: Concordia Publishing House, 1958), 42

Saturday, January 6, 2018

The Beginning

In Genesis we are told the story of the beginning of the earth, humankind and all that we know that surrounds us. Let's loo at the first 10 verses of Genesis.

Genesis 1Jubilee Bible 2000 (JUB)

¶ In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.
And the earth was without order, and empty; and darkness was upon the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters.
My comments: In 2 Peter 2 we are told But these people don’t want to remember what happened long ago. The skies were there, and God made the earth from water and with water. All this happened by God’s word.
So in my mind the earth existed but had become void from possibly the battle that took place between the Angels and the Fallen Angels (demons).
Notice the Spirit of God moved over the waters and then the Word of God spoke light into existence.
¶ And God said, Let there be light, and there was light.
And God saw that the light was good, and God divided the light from the darkness.
And God called the light Day and the darkness he called Night. And the evening and the morning were the first day.
¶ And God said, Let there be a firmament in the midst of the waters, and let it divide the waters from the waters.
My comments: "This firmament has been hidden from most people and not discussed within religious circles." 
And God made a firmament and divided the waters which were under the firmament from the waters which were above the firmament; and it was so.
And God called the firmament Heavens. And the evening and the morning were the second day.
My comments: "Here is how the Hebrews viewed the earth" 

Far different than what we have been taught in the school and college.

¶ And God said, Let the waters under the heavens be gathered together unto one place, and let the dry land appear; and it was so.
10 And God called the dry land Earth, and the gathering together of the waters he called Seas; and God saw that it was good.
My comments: In verses 11 thru 13 God created the trees and plants. What is interesting is He created these before he set the sun, moon and stars in the sky.

14 Then God said, “Let there be lights in the sky. These lights will separate the days from the nights. They will be used for signs to show when special meetings[d] begin and to show the days and years. 15 They will be in the sky to shine light on the earth.” And it happened.
16 So God made the two large lights. He made the larger light to rule during the day and the smaller light to rule during the night. He also made the stars. 17 God put these lights in the sky to shine on the earth.18 He put them in the sky to rule over the day and over the night. They separated the light from the darkness. And God saw that this was good.
19 There was evening, and then there was morning. This was the fourth day.

My comments: "God spoke two major lights to separate day from night. The sun burning brighter and hotter for the day and the moon putting off a cooler light for the night." Verse 16 indicates that both the sun and moon put off their own light instead of what we have been taught."
Again the Hebrew view of earth.

You might be asking what am I trying to say. What I want to do in this blog is to get you to think about what you have been taught and then research it and prove it. Do this with the Bible in one hand and whatever information you gather in the other. Keep in mind the Bible always trumps the other.

Sunday, June 11, 2017

Righteousness - Yours or His?

REAL Men RoCK stands for Righteous, Encouraging, Accountable, Loving Men Rely on Christ's Kindness.

I have been in churches where being righteous meant you observed certain rules or kept the 10 Commandments. I have been in churches where the type of music you listened to or did not listen to was part of what made you righteous. I have been in churches where attending church, going to Bible studies and being involved in church activities several times a week were a sign of your righteousness. I have been in churches where nothing you did made you righteous.

What I want to look at in this post is what the Bible has to say about our righteousness. 

Let's first look at Romans 3: 10-18
There’s nobody living right, not even one, nobody who knows the score, nobody alert for God.

They’ve all taken the wrong turn; they’ve all wandered down blind alleys.

No one’s living right; I can’t find a single one.

Their throats are gaping graves, their tongues slick as mudslides.

Every word they speak is tinged with poison. They open their mouths and pollute the air.

They race for the honor of sinner-of-the-year, litter the land with heartbreak and ruin, Don’t know the first thing about living with others.  

They never give God the time of day. 

I believe Romans 3: 10 makes it fairly clear that none of us on our own is righteous.

So if that is true then what hope is there for any of us? The answer is found later in Romans 3.

21-24 But in our time something new has been added. What Moses and the prophets witnessed to all those years has happened. The God-setting-things-right that we read about has become Jesus-setting-things-right for us. And not only for us, but for everyone who believes in him. For there is no difference between us and them in this. Since we’ve compiled this long and sorry record as sinners (both us and them) and proved that we are utterly incapable of living the glorious lives God wills for us, God did it for us. Out of sheer generosity, he put us in right standing with himself. A pure gift. He got us out of the mess we’re in and restored us to where he always wanted us to be. And he did it by means of Jesus Christ.

26 This is not only clear, but it’s now—this is current history! God sets things right. He also makes it possible for us to live in his rightness.

Paul makes it clear that it is our faith in Jesus Christ that makes us Righteous. It is not our Righteousness but His that cleanse us from our sin.

I know what some of you are thinking, "Yeah but I have messed up so many times." Surely the Righteousness of Jesus is not mine.

If you are in Jesus then let's let Romans 8 speak to you.

Romans 8: 1-2 There is therefore now no condemnation to them that are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus made me free from the law of sin and of death.

31-39 So, what do you think? With God on our side like this, how can we lose? If God didn’t hesitate to put everything on the line for us, embracing our condition and exposing himself to the worst by sending his own Son, is there anything else he wouldn’t gladly and freely do for us? And who would dare tangle with God by messing with one of God’s chosen? Who would dare even to point a finger? The One who died for us—who was raised to life for us!—is in the presence of God at this very moment sticking up for us. Do you think anyone is going to be able to drive a wedge between us and Christ’s love for us? There is no way! Not trouble, not hard times, not hatred, not hunger, not homelessness, not bullying threats, not backstabbing, not even the worst sins listed in Scripture:

Does this mean we can keep on sinning? NO! But we will. Is there a point where God will turn away? NO! What we will miss out on are blessings we could have had if we would have stopped trying to win the battle on our own instead of letting the Holy Spirit do our fighting.

I want to encourage you to study this deeper. But most of all I want you to be encouraged that if you believe Jesus is your Savior He has your back and will always be there when you need Him.

Saturday, May 6, 2017

Marked, Known, Greatness







This blog has been put on the shelf for a while but now I am restoring it. For my first post I have 2 questions for those of you who follow Jesus.

1. What is the mark that you have the Holy Spirit living in you?

2. What is it that Jesus said followers of His would be known by?

Oh wait, I have one more: What is the number 1 trait of a great leader?

If you can put a scripture with your reply that would be great.

Some churches say speaking in tongues is the mark that you have been baptized in the Holy Spirit.

Some churches say followers of Jesus would be known by the number of people they bring to the Lord or the number of people they heal.

Some churches see a great leader as one who has built a large following and congregation.

I want to encourage you to search the Bible for the answers to these 3 questions. I think you might be surprised. 

Please leave me a comment.

Saturday, February 4, 2017

Why Accountability


I believe all men who follow Jesus need to be accountable to another man. I base this on my own experience and scripture.

Proverbs 27: 17  As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.

By being accountable to another man we become more Spiritually sharpened. We find support as we head into battle against those things that can pull us away from God's way.

1 Corinthians 6: 18 So run away from sexual sin. It involves the body in a way that no other sin does. So if you commit sexual sin, you are sinning against your own body. 19 You should know that your body is a temple for the Holy Spirit that you received from God and that lives in you. You don’t own yourselves. 20 God paid a very high price to make you his. So honor God with your body.

Being accountable to another man can help us flee when temptations come.

Galatians 6: 1 Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted."
James 5: 19 My brothers, if anyone among you wanders from the truth and someone brings him back,

Being accountable to another man will help us find restoration when we stumble.

So why accountability? Life and life more abundantly.


Saturday, January 28, 2017

Some photos taken at Restoration Farm

Possibly Some Good Will Result


Last night I couldn't sleep so I got up and began to lay out the book about my great, great grandfather, Rev. Seth Gold Clark. It is going to be 12-14 chapters and written from him thinking about events as he travels to and from Missouri on 3 different trips.

He helped rebuild the churches along the Missouri/Kansas border. Among the towns where he established churches is Holden, Butler, Raymore, Harrisonville, Greenwood, Lamar and Appleton City in Missouri and Iola, Carlyle, Baxter Springs, Galena and Empire, in Kansas. He was also the Financial Agent for the first college in Kansas, Highland University and at that time began what was called a missionary tent outfit in Northern Kansas and Southern Nebraska.

My idea is write from his perspective about the lessons he learned during different times in his life.

The title of the book is "Possibly Some Good Will Result" with sub-title The life of Seth Gold Clark “a very busy, checkered life;”

Monday, December 21, 2015

Saturday, March 28, 2015

Revival



How many of you would agree that there is a need for revival in America? How about the state of Missouri? How about the Lake of the Ozarks area? How about in your own personal life?

Let's look at three questions about Revival.
1.    What it is and what it is not?
2.    How does it come about?
3.    What are the results?

We need to first look at the definition of Revive and Rivival.

revive

verb re·vive \ri-ˈvīv\
: to make (someone or something) strong, healthy, or active again
: to become strong, healthy, or active again
:  to bring (something) back into use or popularity
:  to return to consciousness or life :  become active or flourishing again
:  to restore from a depressed, inactive, or unused state :  bring back
:  to renew in the mind or memory

Now let’s look at Revival
noun re·viv·al \ri-ˈvī-vəl\
: a period in which something becomes popular again after a long period of time
: the growth of something or an increase in the activity of something after a long period of no growth or activity
: the showing of a play, a movie, etc., to the public usually many years after it was last shown : a new production of an old show
:  an act or instance of reviving :  the state of being revived: as
:  renewed attention to or interest in something
:  a new presentation or publication of something old
:  a period of renewed religious interest (2) :  an often highly emotional evangelistic meeting or series of meetings
:  restoration of force, validity, or effect
Revival then is an event where something or someone is being renewed, restored and made stronger. It can happen in a church meeting but most often it does not.

Let’s keep in mind these two definitions as we answer the questions:
1.   
           How does Revival come about?
2.    What are the results of true Revival?

So how does Revival come about? We have all seen the signs or heard radio ads about a Revival meeting being held at such and such church or location. Some of us may have attended one of these meetings and heard a sermon of Fire and Brimstone.

That reminds me of a story about a couple of guys who were contracted to paint an old country church. They under estimated the amount of paint they needed so they decided to paint the front and the side facing the parking lot with a good coat of paint but they would thin down the paint as they painted the other two sides.

As they painted they laughed between themselves about how no one would know they had thinned the paint because both the back and side were shaded by large trees.

They were nearing the end of the job and day and with the last stroke they stepped back to admire what they had accomplished.

What they did not know was the pastor had been in the bell tower the whole time listening and watching their work. With a booming voice he yelled, “Repaint you thinners and thin no more!”

Often at the Revival meetings the pastor yells, “Repent you sinners and sin no more.” Then goes into a message of how sinners are going to hell and you had better repent because tonight could be your last night. Of course there is a bit of truth in that but I think if we look at how Jesus approached sin we just might see a different method.

Sin cuts us off from God, not because he turns from us but because we have turned from him and to things that are not life giving but are life suckers. 

On our farm we snip the little runners that come up at the base of our plants. They are called suckers because they suck nutrition from the main plant keeping it from producing a better fruit. Sin is anything that falls outside of God’s will for us and it sucks the strength out of our relationship with him.
Sin can be something as big as adultery or as small as calling the driver who cut you off an idiot. 

Turn with me to Matthew 9: 12-13  But when he heard it, he said, “Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. Go and learn what this means, ‘I desire mercy, and not sacrifice.’ For I came not to call the righteous, but sinners.”

In Luke 13: 4-5 Jesus did say: Or those eighteen on whom the tower in Siloam fell and killed them: do you think that they were worse offenders than all the others who lived in Jerusalem?  No, I tell you; but unless you repent, you will all likewise perish.”

Each and every one of us at some point in our Christian walk and probably more often than we care to admit are in need of repentance. Our sins have turned us from God and we miss out on the blessings he has for us.  Revival then is the event  where someone is being renewed, restored and made stronger. It begins not with some preacher shaming you into repentance but it begins when the sinner expresses a heart felt repentance.

Jesus came to call sinners to repentance and the key for us is to know how He did that. Let’s look at one example.

Early one morning Jesus went to the temple and as people gathered around him he began to teach them. The commotion could be heard throughout the temple as a group of men, belonging to the scribes and Pharisees, came pushing a woman into the courtyard. She was shoved down at her knees in front of Jesus and they shouted how she was caught in adultery. Her face turned toward the ground in shame as they quoted from the Law of Moses how she should be stoned. Some stood there with stones in their hands. Jesus bent down as he quietly listened to them and began to write in the dust with his finger. When they were done he wrote some more then stood and looked at the leaders of the group and then around at all of the men. The men continued to press him to answer about what he had to say about what the Law of Moses said about stoning those caught in adultery he looked at them and said, “let him who is without sin cast the first stone.” He then bent down and wrote some more words in the dirt. As his words and the words he had written in the dirt sunk in the rocks began to fall from men’s hands and they turned and left. After they had all left Jesus stood, looked down at the woman and asked “woman where are your accusers? Is there no one here to condemn you?” “No one, Lord.” She answered. This is not in scripture but I imagine he reached his hand out to help her up and as she stood he says, “neither do I condemn you” and with kindness in his eyes says “now go and sin no more.” John 8:1-11 English Standard Version (ESV)

Too often the church, that is the body of Christ, heaps shame instead of mercy on those caught in sin. In my mind it would seem important for us to follow Jesus example in dealing with the sin of others. Jesus was more focused on leading one to repentance than condemning them.

Yelling at people and telling them that they are going to hell scares people into a  fake, short-term repentance not a lasting one. What really leads us to a long-term repentance is found in Romans 2: 1-4 Therefore you have no excuse, O man, every one of you who judges. For in passing judgment on another you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, practice the very same things.  We know that the judgment of God rightly falls on those who practice such things.  Do you suppose, O man—you who judge those who practice such things and yet do them yourself—that you will escape the judgment of God?  Or do you presume on the riches of his kindness and forbearance and patience, not knowing that God's kindness is meant to lead you to repentance?

In 2 Peter 3: 9 we are told: The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.

It looks as though God is more interested in restoring, reviving and strengthening his relationship with us than he is in punishing and condemning us for our sins. Make no mistake about it God hates sin but He hates it not because we do it but because it breaks the relationship we have with Him.

In John 16: 8 we are told that the Holy Spirit is the one who will convict he world concerning sin. Although we are called out of this world we are still here and so that verse is for us as well. Notice the Holy Spirit convicts not condemns us. It is through the kindness of the Lord that we are lead to repentance. Let’s be clear God might use a man to stir us but we are lead to repentance not by that man but by the Holy Spirit.

Now let’s answer the third question: What are the results of a repentance that leads to revival?

When the Holy Spirit convicts us of our sin we are moved by his kindness to repent from our heart. We respond as we would when any close relationship is broken and then renewed. We are broken, we might be moved emotionally and as we repent our brokenness is replaced with joy by the restoration of our relationship with God. Our life is revived. Our faith strengthened. Our effectiveness in sharing the gospel is restored.

Revival then is the restoration of something lost because of our sin, it comes about by the kindness of our Lord which leads us to repent and it results in us turning around and moving towards God. We then become instruments of God’s peace and love in the world.

How do we apply what we just heard?

Temple – Holy of Holies:

Every year at the Day of Atonement one of the priests of Israel would enter the Holy of Holies to sprinkle blood from the sacrifices on the Mercy Seat.
In 1 Corinthians 3: 16   we are told we are the Temple of God and that the Holy Spirit is in our midst. The heart of the temple was the Holy of Holies so our hearts could represent the Holy of Holies with the Mercy Seat there in. So repentance is done in the Temple and Holy of Holies.

Often at the tent revivals people are told to come to alter and repent.
In James 5: 16 we are told to confess one to another so that is also valid and it helps to have an accountability partner who you can do that with.

Did this speak to anyone today?