
I was ordained as a Pastor in 2006 and I have asking God to show me through my wife where He wanted me to serve. The Restoration Farm is that place and you can follow our adventure at http://therestorationfarm.blogspot.com.
This blog is about the issues men face and things I have experienced.
I hope you will be encouraged, challenged, and stirred to take action.
Proverbs 27:17 (The Message)
17 You use steel to sharpen steel, and one friend sharpens another
REAL Men RoCK
R ighteous E ncouraging A ccountable L oving
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R ely on C hrist's K indness

The other day my wife, Kat, and I looked at 27 acres that we hope to turn into a farm. It would be a farm with Hoop houses, goats, chickens, ducks and guineas. Here is a slide show of the property. I hope you enjoy it.
27 Acres

Genesis 11: 31 "And Terah took Abram his son, Lot the son of Haran, his grandson, and Sarai his daughter-in-law, his son Abram's wife, and they went forth together to go from Ur of the Caldees into the land of Canaan; but when they came to Haran, they settled there".
From this passage I take it that the actually place Terah was to go was the land of Canaan but for some reason he stopped and settled in Haran.
He may have found the fertile area of Haran more desirable than continuing on to Canann. He may have encountered difficulties that seemed too great to continue the trip.
I believe often in our lives we too seem to do what Terah did and quit moving toward our goal. We instead "settle" for what we have instead of pursuing our dream.
I believe that God has placed in you a dream. This dream has it's foundation in the experiences you have had and talents that you have been given. Often this dream gets covered with the dust from negative experiences or failed expectations. It could be wounds that have come from actions of people in your life or it could be addictions you have developed to cover the wounds of life.
When I watch movies or real life stories that are about people touching the lives of those in need I often feel a stirring in my heart. I believe this stirring is God's Holy Spirit letting me know that I am made to pursue my dream of fulfilling the mission He has given to me. REAL Men RoCK is part of that calling. I write here about those things I have experienced and how God has provided for the wounds of my life. Another part of that dream He has given me is to follow Jesus in preaching the Good News of the Kingdom of God, proclaim release to the captives, to set free the downtrodden and proclaim the "Favorable Year of the Lord" (Luke 4: 18-19).
Do you experience those stirrings? What is it that causes you to come alive? If you can identify those moments then I encourage you to write them down. Ask God to show you just what it means and for Him to reveal what it is He wants you to do with those stirrings.
I want to recommend two books that might help you as you discover your dream.
1. "The Dream Giver" by Bruce Wilkinson
2. "Never Give UP!" by Joyce Meyer
John Eldredge says this in his book, "Dare to Desire": "Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and go do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive."
So what is it that "Makes you come alive?" You will know it because it stirs your heart. Don't settle for what you have but Come alive!
This is a post I did at A Community Chaplain blog
Do you have a dream that is laying around gathering dust? A dream that life has snuffed out? I want to recommend several books for you to read that will help you dust off that dream and get new fire under it.
"Dare to Desire" by John Eldredge. In this 136 page book John makes the following statements:
"The question is not dare we desire but dare we not desire?"
"Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and go do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive."
"The Dream Giver" by Bruce Wilkinson. Bruce covers a story about "Ordinary" and how he sets off in pursue of his Big Dream. Bruce will show you how to rise above the ordinary, conquer your fears, and overcome the obstacles that keep you from living your Big Dream.
"The Go Getter" by Peter B. Kyne. This is a story that tells you how to be one.
"Lessons from a Dream Maker" by Joe Land and Bill Perkins. This book contains Ten Proven Steps that will Turn Your Dreams into Reality.
"Your Road Map for Success" by John Maxwell. "The definition of success isn't the same for any two people... The process, however, is the same for everyone... Success is knowing your purpose in life, growing to reach your maximum potential, and sowing seeds that benefit others... When you see success as a journey,you'll never have the problem trying to arrive at an elusive final destination." - John Maxwell
Each of these books are tools that can help you discover, develop, pursue and achieve your dream.
Bruce Wilkinson asks this of each of us: "Are you living your dream or just living your life?"
I personally believe, as the above men do, that God has placed in your heart a dream. A BIG Dream that is based on your personal experiences, your gifts, and your talents. Your dream is not meant for you but for the Glory of God who gave it to you.
I encourage you to purchase and read any one of the books above to help you unravel the dream that hides within your heart.



With this post I want to share some blog of some of my friends or that I follow. Please pay them a visit and give them a shout.
http://shepherdsgarden.wordpress.com/
I have known Rick Duggan for about two years and he has a Passion to help people through Hoop Gardening.
http://ricksblog-rick.blogspot.com/
I have known Dick Mann for about 27 years and when I was homeless he took me in. He has been a Spiritual example for me for many years.
http://www.bodykarebykaren.com/
I have known Karen for about 12 years and have grown to appreciate her insights on Healthy Eating.
Jason the Bald Guy http://jasonthebaldguy.com/
I have known Jason since he moved up to our area from Louisiana after hurricane Katrina and I love his Outlook on life.
http://nutritioncoachkaren.blogspot.com/
This is the same Karen as above and this is her Nutrition website.
http://caribbeanshulamite.blogspot.com/
I do not personally know the Caribbean Shulamite but have read her blog and she has read mine. We share in the belief that Jesus is Lord and Savior. She has been an encourager of mine for the past year.
Each of these blogs offer a unique perspective on life and some great ideas on how to improve your life. Each of the authors are fulfilling their dream and their calling through sharing on their blog. I believe you will find what they share on their blog to be a blessing.
I not only have them as my friends but I value their input into my life.
One final one A Community Chaplain
http://louisburgcommunitychaplain.blogspot.com/
I have known this guy for over 59 years and I must say he is my favorite blogger. Okay, so this last one is one of my blogs but I still appreciate what the guy has to say.
Vineyard Church, Overland Park, KS
While attending this church I found healing for many wounds I have suffered from life. Through sound Biblical teaching and a leadership that focused on healing rather than condemning I experienced many breakthroughs.
New Life Church, Louisburg, KS
This is now my church home whether I have the honor to serve as Pastor of Life Groups and to oversee Men's Ministry. I am living my dream and fulfilling my calling through my blogs and through serving at New Life. I encourage you to open up the gift in you and take the risk to pursue it.
Father, May each person who visits these blog today be blessed by the words they read. In the name, the authority and the power of Jesus Christ amen
Do you have a dream, a Big, Audacious Dream? If you do you have probably encountered some big obstacles as you moved forward toward your dream.
I once heard a story about a man who headed off to California as part of the gold rush. He staked his claim and began to dig. He dug and dug, dug and dug some more. He hit some small pockets of gold but never the Mother load! After several months of digging he became frustrated and decided his mine was not going to produce any Mother load. He walked out of his mine and headed into town. He went to the real estate office and told them he wanted to sell his claim which included his notes. A man over heard his discussion and made an offer. The man took the offer and headed for the train a beaten man.
The man who purchased the mine began to study the notes the other man had written. He made some calculations and decided that with some more digging a Mother load would be found. He headed to the mine and began to dig. He dug and dug, then he dug some more and within just a few feet he hit the Mother load.
The other man had quit just a few feet from his dream.
Are you like that man? Are there obstacles that are keeping you from reaching your dream? Are there walls that have been built that keep you from achieving victory in a relationship?
The purpose of this post is to encourage you to keep moving forward. Do not stop. Do not let anything or anyone steal your dream. If God gave you that dream and if it is His will He wants you to keep moving forward. Yes it might be hard. It might become discouraging but He wants you to remain faith to what He has called you to.
Maybe you are just one brick away, one more shovel full of dirt away, just one more step from reaching your goal, your dream.
As Joshua took over the job of leading Israel into the Promised Land God said, "Be strong and courageous, for you shall give this people possession of the land which I swore to their fathers to give them. Only be strong and very courageous; be careful to do according to all the law which Moses My servant commanded you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left so that you may have success wherever you go." Joshua 1: 6-7
One more step, one more brick, just one more shovel full of stuff. Sure the fulfillment of your dream cannot be seen but if it is of God it will happen if you don't give up! In Hebrews 11: 1 we are told, "Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen." and in verse 6, "And without faith it is impossible to please Him (God), for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and He is a rewarder of those who seek Him."
For those of you who do not have a dream I encourage you to get John Eldredge's book, "Dare to Desire". On page 39 he says this, "Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and go do that, because what the world needs are people who have come alive." Whatever makes you come alive place it before God. What makes you come alive has something to do with your dream.
Don't quit moving forward. Don't quit now. If your dream is from God only you can stop it from coming true. Don't quit now you are just one brick, one step, one shovel full away from achieving your God given dream. God is the "Dream Giver."
It Ain't over!
Do you have a BIG Dream? One that seems impossible to achieve? If so I have some encouragement to share with you. I was reading in Bruce Wilkinson’s book, “Beyond Jabez” that I want to you to consider and then I am going to challenge you to do something for 30 days.
From "Beyond Jabez".
My Challenge
I challenge you to take the next 30 days and simply ask God to bless you indeed, to give you the land and resources you will need to begin the greenhouse farm, to protect you from financial difficulties and personal protection. Let’s see what God does in those 30 days.
My warning is not to pray this prayer without hope, without conviction, without commitment to doing whatever God reveals that you need to do in the next 30 days and do not pray it without faith that God will answer.
If your dream is of God and it is in His timing then no one and nothing can keep it from coming to pass. God will intervene and bring the backers, the resources, and give you what you need to overcome your own personal limitations so that it can be achieved. If your dream is His dream it is worth His attention and He will hear your prayer.
If you take this challenge I believe over the next thirty days you will if nothing else receive confirmation that your dream is or is not of God.
When I was younger I had several dreams that I wanted to accomplish. One was to have a second home on the beach in Grenada. I wanted to be able to stay at this home for several months each year. Another part of this dream was to have a sailing yacht and be able to sail the Caribbean when I was down at the beach home. I wanted to earn enough money to decide what I did when I wanted to do it and with whom I wanted to do it with. I do not think there is anything wrong with having a dream like that except that it did not involve helping anyone else except in the context of making more money.
When I thought of these dreams I could almost smell the salt water and hear the waves on the beach. I could almost feel the rocking of the sail
21-22But Jesus was matter-of-fact: "Yes—and if you embrace this kingdom life and don't doubt God, you'll not only do minor feats like I did to the fig tree, but also triumph over huge obstacles. This mountain, for instance, you'll tell, 'Go jump in the lake,' and it will jump. Absolutely everything, ranging from small to large, as you make it a part of your believing prayer, gets included as you lay hold of God."